Am I in the right, or has the whole world lost it's mind?

Okay, so I came across this crazy video of this asian guy who takes estrogen or something and basically turned himself into a woman. So I left a comment asking whether he told other men that hit on him, whether he was a man. And he replied saying he tells his boyfriends when he's comfortable. Is it just me or is that incredibly disturbing. Surely a human being with any shred of morality, would come clean almost immediately. I mean, it's like a girl lying about not having STDs before banging you. I could not believe that the majority of responses I got were disagreeing with me. Most of them said - he has the right to tell them when he's comfortable. Are you ******* kidding me? Do we actually live in a world that's that messed up.